im a big believer about communication.
you have a problem you voice it out, you talk about it, you compromise, you solve it.
i dont believe that keeping it inside of yourself is emotionally healthy at all
because one day everything that you keep inside of yourself is just gonna blow up and you'll end up like a spastic, crazy nutso
and this is why we have friends, family, loved ones etc etc. they're there for you to communicate with, to share your feelings with, to get advice from and they should just be there to even perform the fucking simple duty of listening.
the best ways of solving a problem is for both parties to rationally sit down together and work through it. for both sides to say what they're feeling, what they think the other party did wrong, what they think the solution should be.

but i guess thats the way i deal with problems. maybe because im such a vocal person i tend to become more vocal and talkative and probably more annoying when im dealing with a problem.
i get it that people deal with problems their own way.
i just wish you would talk about your problems with me.
so maybe i can feel a part of your life more
and maybe i can feel that you take me seriously

"if you're gonna play with fire, you're gonna get burnt"

xlove